Reframing- a game changing life skill
I have a rhetorical question
Who is going to live the better life after having failed at doing something they truly wanted at least 10 times
1.The person who says" I am useless, I just need to get used to the idea that I will never be successful or amount to anything"
OR
2.The person who chooses to say "I have just narrowed down the field and learnt 10 ways of not doing it .I am excited to be getting closer to my goal"?

I would say that the clear answer is that number two would live a better more successful life

Our self talk once said has a ripple throughout our entire being and is expressed in our thoughts,words, actions,reactions and even physiologically

The self talk of complacent people is totally differently to the self talk of lovers of life
The self talk of people who wallow in their failures is different to people who use their failures to grown strong and get closer to success

The self talk of people with low self esteem is totally different to people with a healthy self esteem

Reframing is a critical skill in learning to look at life in general and specifically differently in a more positive ,grateful, empowering,self fulfilling, productive etc way

Your skill in reframing is commensurate with the positive power of self talk,the language, symbols and metaphors you use.

When you cant change your circumstances at any one time change your model of the world and find that life is a many hued palette but many of the colors are bright

Upgrade your self talk and change your life . by learning how to reframe
You will feel the good feeling ripple effect in all you say do ,feel etc

You can always take it higher ..you have G-D within

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Avi Perez
Your Redemption Coach
Reality Therapy Certified